For reals people!!!

I'm usually a very, very laid back type of guy and it takes a lot for me to get truly angered. So with that said, let me tell you one of the few things that definitely grinds my gears: people who make plans with you and then bail out without proper notice. Now, I completely understand that things come up and if you have to take care of business... go right ahead BUT please be courteous enough to let the other party know that you're a no go as soon as possible! I'm not done just yet... what really really really fucks with me is when you (the other party) have to get the lame "I can't make it" answer yourself from others. Have some decency people!! If you know you're not going to make it because you're sick/lame/have to bake a cake for your Grandma's lover (hey, it could happen?) don't wait until a friend calls you to surprise them with such fuckery with an hour or two before the

scheduled hang out. Personally, it doesn't just anger me but it also makes me question the friendship at hand. Specifically because you should have the amiable respect

to let the person know that you're canceling

so that they can find something else to do before it's too late. Maybe I'm just a naive person for believing that everyone is a decent human being... actually, this isn't even about being a good person or not, it's about having the proper class, etiquette and common sense. I'm a grown ass man and I expect people to act that way too. There's no room for tip toeing around... just grab your balls or your perfectly amazing cleavage and just pick up the phone and let your friend(s) know in that exact moment you decide to raincheck!!! I can't stress this enough. I don't even care if someone just straight out tells me that they can't hang out because they found something better to do, can't stand me as person, or can no longer hold their breath around me because I smell like something that came out of Lady Gaga's ass, whatever... just tell me so I can take my greatness elsewhere! Fuck, is that so much to ask for!??? In other news, I now heart Adam Lambert for his bold & riské AMA performance- now that's some serious balls!